Hi Kaycee,

Instead of reading 52 of my articles, you should have read two of them, then bought “The System.” What you did is the same as getting a car that doesn’t have an engine. “The System” is the engine of my philosophy. 

My book draws all of my principles and techniques together. It’s what makes comprehensive sense of my articles. Without the book, you are only getting dribs and drabs. They are valuable dribs and drabs to be sure, but you need the whole steak.

Listen to me, Kaycee: if you’d had my book when you met Misty, you wouldn’t even be writing this letter because you would have known what to do.

Misty is NOT chasing you, pal. If she were really chasing you, you would have been her boyfriend by now. So you’re deluding yourself, Kaycee.  This babe is NOT really after you romantically. You’re not dating her, you’re just hanging out with her. She’s got you stranded in the dreaded FRIEND ZONE and you don’t even realize it. 

Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You’re really just her girlfriend.” And because you don’t have my book, you haven’t been able to figure any of this out.

When Misty asked you whether you were even friends anymore, that was the dead giveaway of how she regards you. You’re going out on FRIENDSHIP, hang-out dates. They aren’t REAL dates.

Now you tell me that Misty has a boyfriend. In other words, she’s not available. “The System” says that the girl has to be AVAILABLE. 

You can read a year’s worth of my articles and you won’t discover that – among many other vital points. You’ll only get those heavier insights by reading my book. Many key ideas are only included in “The System,” and unless you get it and synthesize all of those principles, like my cousin General Love says, “You’re operating without a full arsenal.”

Instead, you opted to waste time on a situation you didn’t know how to handle – in other words, chasing a girl who has a boyfriend. You’re trying to get her to drop the boyfriend but she hasn’t.

Nothing has changed. And you’ve blown five months for this? That’s because you read free articles for a year and were too cheap to buy my book. And you needed my book, buddy, to clear all of this mess up.

Of course Misty keeps you a secret to her boyfriend. She digs the guy and doesn’t want to change their relationship, get it? You’re the one who wants their relationship to change. Misty doesn’t, and her boyfriend doesn’t. Like my Uncle Jethro Love says, “You’re just the third leg of a three-legged chair.”

When you say that she keeps flirting with you, all she’s doing is committing “adultery lite.” In other words, she’s just amusing herself. Misty might be unhappy with her boyfriend, but not quite enough to drop him for you. She also might like you a lot but not enough to the guy for you.

What should you do? Keep dating other women and stop talking to Misty. Be a SUPER-CHALLENGE to her. Until she gets rid of him, be cordial to her but don’t give her more than 15 seconds of your time. No mythical phony dates, no hanging out, no phone calls or texts. AND ABOVE ALL, GET “THE SYSTEM” ASAP!

Remember, guys: you won’t grasp all of “The System” by just reading my articles.