Hey Doc,

I’m a first year university student who is a faithful reader of your columns. Keira is 22 and in two of my classes. I see her maybe three or four times a week, but we don’t have much time to talk to one another as we have to focus on the class lectures. The only time I can chat with her is during a lab where she is my partner.

I eventually got Keira’s number and email address but she would never pick up my phone calls and would only reply sometimes to my texts and some of my emails. According to her she spends all of her time studying or going to the gym. We met once on a Friday to discuss classwork and that’s it. When I once made plans to see her for a date outside of class, she didn’t show. At our next lab I didn’t ask her about it on the advice of some friends, though one said I’d been friend-zoned, which was ridiculous because I’ve only known Keira for about three weeks. But I haven’t dismissed the possibility that I’ve been friend-zoned. That said, we had our normal good time talking in lab.

A few days later I went to the gym, not expecting to see Keira as our schedules are very different but she was there. Our eyes met when she was leaving, but she didn’t mutter a single word, and quickly turned her head, which confused me.

Even now I cannot get my mind off Keira because I’m so attracted to her. I have no idea what to do in order to get a date with her. I was thinking of buying your book when I have the money. What do you think, Doc? Should I hold on and be a Challenge or move on?

Bones - a confused rookie

Hi Bones,

You read my columns, but you don’t have my book, and now you’re asking me a question, which basically makes no sense. Here’s the problem: with my columns you’re only getting part of “The System.” To get the whole enchilada you have to invest in the book, otherwise you’re going to continue making mistakes over and over with women.

Now, when you see Keira, are you making her laugh? Is she asking you personal questions about yourself? No! These are just some of the elements you’re missing when you don’t have my book at your disposal. In other words, you simply don’t know enough about women to navigate any type of relationship.

If Keira doesn’t answer your phone calls, right there you’re history, Bones. This babe has absolutely no Interest Level in you. When she says she spends all of her time studying or in the gym, she’s indirectly telling you that she has no time for you or interest whatsoever in you. However, if you were the right guy, she would have gotten right back to you. To you Psych majors, when she doesn’t pick up the phone and return your call, you’re OUT.

And when Keira didn’t show up to meet you outside of class when you had it all arranged, it was a BROKEN DATE, which you would know if... 

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