Hi Finn,

Wow. Now think about what you’re telling me here. Delilah, who supposedly loves you, sleeps with the son of her girlfriend. To you Psych majors, the most important factor in a relationship is LOYALTY, and as soon as Delilah went to bed with her girlfriend’s son, your relationship with her was OVER because she doesn’t have a shred of Loyalty. What you don’t seem to realize, my friend, is that this woman has no respect for you at all, she has no fear that you’ll drop her, and she knows that she can get away with anything. She thinks you’re a fool – and sadly, she’s right.

And you mean to tell me that after being with Delilah for six long years you finally found out all of this ugly stuff about her? Weren’t there a whole field of RED FLAGS before this mess began? You say that Delilah was unfaithful to you in the past – and you put up with it? Why? What does that say about you, Finn?

It doesn’t matter that Delilah’s girlfriend’s son is a bum. We know he’s a bum, so it’s a non-issue. And it doesn’t matter if he’s a multi-millionaire and works 80 hours a week. The point is this: Delilah took all of her clothes off with another man. That’s the only thing that counts here. And it tells you once and for all everything you need to know about her.

I know you’re concerned that Delilah’s going to be around her girlfriend’s son, but that’s not relevant anymore. You should be dropping this woman. Like my cousin General Love says, “You’re not coming down hard enough on her.” Or, as an alternative, you should at least tell her, “I don’t want to see you for three months, until you decide you want to see me – ONLY.” But you’re not putting up any resistance, Finn. Delilah’s going to continue visiting her girlfriend’s son because you’re not going to make any move to get rid of her.

You’re right about one thing -- Delilah doesn’t care how you feel. She doesn’t care at all about you, dude. So the woman who loves you doesn’t care about how you feel – does that bother you?