NEVER HELD HANDS WITH A GIRL?
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READER'S QUESTION
Hey Doc,
Growing up, I lived a very sheltered life: Most things were simply given to me, in return for a level of conformity that followed certain expectations. Throughout high school, I was essentially prohibited from being in a relationship (along with strict avoidance of drinking and partying -- yeah, those were fun years!) as I was led to believe that it would impede my education and career prospects. I’m 24 now, about to finally graduate from college with a career in law enforcement just on the horizon, which is yet another reason why I abstained from a lot when I was younger.
In all that time, I have never been in a committed relationship with someone. I mean, I haven’t even made it to holding hands with a woman. There’s just this deeply ingrained apprehension that prevents me from being romantic, and as hard as I try to “put myself out there,” I feel like women get an easy read on my lack of Confidence and inexperience. Now don’t get me wrong, most of my friends are actually female, but that’s about as far as it ever gets.
Many of my guy and girl friends tell me I’m not missing much, that anticipating finding love is simply setting myself up for disappointment. Most of them are bitter about their own bad experiences, and sometimes they do a pretty good job of convincing me to remain single.
Am I crazy? Now that I’m living by my own means, I’ve tried meeting women online, which has led to a few friendly coffee dates or concerts, but never more than that. Finding that spark of romance that goes beyond being good acquaintances (most of these girls just end up being my Facebook friends, ugh!) seems so out of reach. I’ve had advice ranging from “Be a jerk, have a few emotionless flings” to “Keep being genuine, the right girl is out there!” All I want is a meaningful connection with someone special, who can see past the fact that I’ve got some serious catching up to do. Is there any hope?
Roderick - who feels like a child
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Hi Roderick,
Consider this. You’re going into law enforcement with a college degree, which I congratulate you on. But look at the amount of time you’ve spent on your career, while you’ve spent no time whatsoever studying “The System.” You’ve spent several years obtaining a degree so that you’ll do very well in the vocation of protecting people – certainly an admirable and honorable profession – but you could have been studying my materials as well. You’re qualified to be in law enforcement, but you’re not qualified to be with any woman, and that’s what memorizing my book would have done for you. In other words, you never had the chance to experience the transformative power of “The System.”
Your problem, Roderick, is that you have no product knowledge. You try to talk to women, you know that they’re different from you, but you don’t know how they’re different. As a result. you don’t know what to do with them. Think of it this way. You were deeply puzzled when you were first confronted by having to use a computer. But after a few months, you know your way around it like an expert. And that’s because you now have product knowledge of the computer. But you have absolutely no product knowledge of women.
It’s true that women get an easy read on your lack of Confidence and inexperience because they are very intuitive. They sense that you don’t know how to properly communicate and approach a relationship with them due to your lack of experience and education in the area of starting and handling relationships.
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