HE FELL FOR A STRIPPER?
He not only fell for a stripper but he chased her around with NO INTEREST coming back from her - sad situation - read the article below and...
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READER'S QUESTION
Hey Doc,
I met Desire one night at a strip club. She is definitely the hottest girl I’ve ever been with, and I think that’s the problem. I ended up taking her home that night. The next week when I went to coffee with her, I didn’t feel much interest coming from her, though she was excited when I initially called her.
Then she moved to a different city and I spent a year hitchhiking and bicycling across the country. When she moved back to our city, she was still “kinda involved” with an ex-boyfriend so I didn’t try to spend too much time with her. She asked me once if she should break up with him and I said that’s between you and him.
Then I left town again. Before I did, I left a letter on her doorstep telling her a few things I probably shouldn’t have. With it, I left a necklace. I sent her postcards from different cities across Canada as well as a wooden tobacco pipe that she’d always wanted. Six months later I came back and Desire stood me up twice when I tried to get together with her.
I started dating another girl, and it lasted 11 months. Two weeks ago I broke up with her, then returned to the bar where I met Desire. She was still there, working, and we hung out and danced for a couple of hours. Now here’s where things got interesting. Desire told me that she tried to find me when I left town but couldn’t. I know that she knows where some of my family lives so that is BS. I told her that I didn’t believe her and that she could have found me if she really wanted to. But she plucked my heartstrings when she said, “I wanted you to take me with you when you left.” By now she was crying and I kissed her. Then she revealed to me that she has a boyfriend. Ugh. Long story short, we ended up going to my house for the night (no sex).
Doc, what is it with this chick? I know she wants me to call her, but I figured I should wait a week, then lay down a line like “Hey, I know you feel like crap because you’ve been giving me the runaround, so I’m going to give you a chance to make it up to me.” Maybe you have a better idea of what I should do about her? I’m really hung up on Desire.
Tran - who should have stayed on the road
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I may have been able to find her, but I never would have been able to KEEP her without you, Jeff, and the "System."
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
Hi Tran,
What happened here is that you happened to get lucky with a Beautiful Woman one night. And that was the beginning and the end of it. This thing was never meant to go long-term.
Then you went on a trek across the country, so you spent a full year apart from Desire. The point is that your relationship with her, if you could call it that, didn’t continue. You didn’t even have a second or third date with her.
To you Psych majors, you have to continuity in a dating situation, and you broke that with Desire when you left town. But at least you told her that breaking up with a boyfriend was their business, which was a smart thing. It shows that you have at least a little bit of brains!
That said, why did you leave letters for this babe? You had all of one lucky date with her and you’re already writing her love letters? You have great illusions of grandeur with Desire, pal, and she’s really been around the block, not to mention that there was no basis in reality for any of your fantasies. And remember, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “This girl gets off being sexy to strangers for money, which is her job.”
But you didn’t quit there. No, you went and gave her gifts. It’s very obvious that you don’t have “The System,” Tran. But you still didn’t stop. You kept sending her postcards and a pipe. Like my Uncle Jethro Love says, “What was that for, her pot?”
Then you came back to town and Desire broke two dates with you. “The System” says one broken date and you’re out. And still, after all this time, you never got ...
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