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(Editor's Note, this letter was written before Doc's death in August, 2020 but still relevant as Doc's principles are timeless).

Hey Doc,

I met a girl on a blind date. She’s 21 and I’m 29. We went to a bookstore and hung out at a bar. At first, she was shy, so I bought her a few drinks. After three wine coolers, she loosened up and made it clear she was attracted to me.

At three different times during the date, I went to the bathroom only to see a different guy sitting in my place by the time I got back. Each time, the girl, the guy, and I joked about it - but inside, I was fuming.

By the end of the night, things got pretty hot and heavy between the girl and me (although we only kissed) so I told her I would call her.

When I did call her Sunday night, she said she was sick, so she would call me back later. I sent her an email stating: "I hope you are feeling better." She replied with: “Thanks for your e-mail. I’m feeling much, much better. I’ll be out until late tonight, but I’ll try to give you a call later." I haven’t heard from her since.

Do you think I handled this girl right? In reality, I think she is too young for me, but I could always use the practice for the real thing. What do you think?

Angelo – who wants to know what happened

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Hi Angelo,

To paraphrase an old adage - “Candy is dandy, but Liquor is quicker!” The problem comes when your girl tries to pick up the football team in the middle of your date!

Sure, a woman’s Interest Level appears to rise with each belt of alcohol you give her – but you cannot keep a woman tipsy all of the time! In a world filled with females who often give false signals of high Interest Level, you practically need a polygraph to know whether or not you’ve got the real thing on your hands. But to add booze to this equation is to make the truth damn near impossible to find out! That’s why a man must discover what a woman’s feelings are for him without the three shots lined up at the bar.

Angelo, instead of trying to get this girl plastered, you should have asked yourself how three different guys managed to grab your chair when she was supposed to be guarding it for you? Was it too hard for her to utter the four little words: “This seat is taken”? Perhaps she was giving you a not-so-subtle hint that her feelings for you were lower than a wino’s brain cell count. Maybe she was telling the rip-off artists: “Please sit here, I’m with a creep.”

And consider this other important tidbit: this girl said she would “try” to call you back. The Reality Factor says: “Women with low Interest Level make vague promises while women with high Interest Level make commitments.” If she were truly interested in you, she would have given you a definite time and date. Decisiveness is what separates Real Women from the Strokers. Unfortunately, in your rush to get this girl to the bar counter, you missed this important point.

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Angelo, it’s not youth that’s keeping this girl from you, it’s her low Interest Level. You would have seen this right away if you had chosen to intoxicate her with charm rather than with old grapes. For example, if you had gotten bored expressions during displays of your sparkling wit, you would have immediately known that your girl was unavailable for future dates. Conversely, any smiles and touches during your rendezvous would have showed you she cared.

From now on, Angelo, let your dates take a straight shot of your male strength qualities of Self-control, Confidence, and Challenge and if they don’t respond, move on to those who will. Unless a woman likes you at least 51%, not even Ernest and Julio can help.

Remember guys, women who like you don’t need to get boiled in grape juice in order to show it. It is not only cheaper to minimize alcohol use during the date, but there are no love hangovers in the morning to worry about!