Should You Tolerate a Broken Date? Doc Love Says NO—Here’s Why
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If she cancels once, it’s a red flag. Twice? Game over. Doc Love breaks down why broken dates reveal low Interest Level—and why men must stop chasing women who aren’t truly interested. Learn how to protect your self-respect and attract women who actually want to be with you.
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Dear Doc Love,
I took a girl out on a date and we had a nice time. During the date, she kept telling me: "We should do this again" so later, I asked her out for a second date. She accepted.
When the day of our second date came, she left a message on my voicemail telling me she couldn't make it. I called her the following day and she apologized for canceling. We rescheduled our date for a week later.
The evening of the date came and I got another phone call - it was her calling to cancel again! I asked her whether she was sure she wanted to see me, and she said yes. We arranged another date for the end of the week.
To my surprise, I got a call from her the next day, asking me out for a lunch. Since I hadn't seen her for so long, I eagerly accepted this offer. The lunch went well and we ended up holding hands. Unfortunately, when I kissed her, she became quite withdrawn.
The next day, she called me to tell me that she wanted to stop seeing me. She said that she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend and was confused. After talking to her awhile, I talked her into going out with me again.
It took two calls just to reach her after that. When I finally did reach her, she sounded genuinely happy to speak to me. She told me that she would call me that weekend to arrange a meeting. She never called. What's your advice?
Marcus - who just wants another date
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The first time your girl canceled your date, you should have known it was over. A broken date means it’s time to quit!
Guys have been jerked around so much by women in their dating lives that they’ve forgotten how women with high Interest Level behave – this is why they accept broken dates as a normal fact of life. If men would only think back on the number of dates that they have broken with the women they were interested in (zero), they wouldn’t keep calling back the women who repeatedly kick them in the teeth.
In case you’ve forgotten what a woman with high Interest Level is like, Marcus let me give you her profile.
When a woman truly likes a guy: she gives her phone number without hesitation, she’s always there to take his call when he phones her, she accepts invitations without excuses and above all – she never break dates. In other words, a woman with high Interest Level is straightforward.
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In contrast, women with low Interest Level give mixed signals. They may give you their phone number, but they will tell you that sometimes they never saw your call (or text). They may tell you how much they want to see you, but when you call them, they never seem to pick up. Or, if you are lucky enough to get them on the phone, they always have a busy schedule. Then – if you somehow manage to get a date, something always seems to come up to prevent you from meeting. This last scenario describes yours, Marcus.
The moment this girl canceled your second date over your voicemail (rejecting you to an electronic device instead of to your face – what a classy lady!), it was clear that she ineligible for your time. In spite of her cajoling words and the token lunch date she gave you, her broken date betrayed the lack of desire in her heart.
Women with low Interest Level are consistent only about one thing - breaking dates. This fact should make your course of action obvious: If a woman breaks a date, delete her phone number ASAP.
Using this strategy, Marcus, can help you quickly cut through the confusion arising from a woman’s mixed signals. If you had used this tactic on your girl, there would have been no need to talk her into seeing you instead of her ex-boyfriend (By the way, if she like you, she would have forgotten all about him.)
Of course, it’s possible – through extremely rare for a woman to have a genuine emergency on the night of your date. But in these cases, she would call only to change the day and/or time of the date – not to cancel it completely.
Remember guys, staying with a girl after a broken date is pure masochism. When you do not call after a broken date, at least you can save your self-respect. Women with low Interest Level may repeatedly tell you how interested they are, but as my cousin Fast Eddie Love would say, “Words whisper, but actions scream.”
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