The Key To Women Is…
DOC TEACHES IN THE SYSTEM THAT THE KEY TO WOMEN IS....MYSTERY!!!
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Hi Doc,
I’m very impressed with your relationship course.
Before I got your information, I was doing all kinds of stupid things with women. Man, I mean I didn’t have a clue. And even worse, I didn’t know that I didn’t have a clue. You’ve really opened my eyes and I’ve really got to thank you big time for that.
There is one point in your program that I just can’t quite get a grasp on though, at least not yet. It’s really a philosophical issue. OK this is it: If the man is the aggressor, the initiator, the risk taker in the dating dance, then how is it possible for the woman to see him as a mysterious - Challenge as you say to be?
If I ask a girl for her phone number, then that tells her that I’m interested. If I try to kiss her, then she really knows I’m interested. At this point she is no longer wondering if I’m interested or not because I’ve made it clear by my actions that I am.
I understand that when I don’t tell a girl how much I like her then I’m being a Challenge in that way. But If I’m the one who’s doing all the calling, driving to pick her up, planning the date, paying for everything and making all the moves for intimacy, doesn’t all that spoil any sense of Mystery/Challenge that I’ve tried to build? How am I able to be a Challenge when I’m the one (not her) who has to put myself on the line? I think you see what I’m getting at.
So what do you say to all that Doc?
Derek - who needs to understand
Hi Derek,
Yes, it’s true that it’s the guy who has to walk up to the girl, make her laugh and ask her out. That’s the way it is. What a wonderful world it would be if all any guy had to do was show up and look good and women would consistently risk rejection to approach him and ask him out. However, it’s not that way because women don’t have to do it. Why would women volunteer to be the ones to put their egos on the line in that case?
But since it is our job as men to be the aggressors, we should be aware that we have choices when we’re out there in the trenches. When we’re approaching a woman, we can come on like a hungry Pitbull, or we can come on with class and confidence.
Yes, Derek, when you as the man take the risk to ask a woman out, you ARE making it clear that you want her. There’s no mystery in that. But you don’t have to let her know that you haven’t had a date in six months while you’re asking her out. And believe me, there are plenty of guys out there who have that kind of desperate air about them when they’re approaching women.
The key to success with women is to reveal the least amount of interest possible while you’re taking action to close the deal. To you Psych majors, keep your mouth shut about your feelings and insecurities.
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For instance, you’re the one who has to walk up to the woman and strike up a conversation. But once you do, you can wait for her to ask YOU for your name first. You can also refrain from complimenting her beauty like all the other guys do.
You’re the one who has to ask her for her phone number, but there’s no law that says you have to call her within 48 hours like every other horn dog would.
You’re the one who has to call her up and ask her out. But when you call you don’t have to say “Hello Caprice, this is Derek, we met at Sally Smith’s party last week and we had a nice conversation about environmental awareness.” Instead, you can simply say,” Hey Caprice, it’s Derek” and then shut up and see if she has a clue as to who you are.
And you’re the one who goes for that first kiss, when you hope the timing is right, but you don’t have to tell her how much you like her when she reciprocates.
So, Derek, the fact is that you can make all the moves necessary to meet a girl, get her out on a date and connect with her and still be a Challenge.
Remember guys, always play it cool even though you are dying on the inside.
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